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		<title>How good are you feeling? Words for your emotions part 2/3</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 02:52:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Usually, EFT tapping is focused on negative feelings and once these have been cleared it helps to tap in some positive feelings to reinforce the shift. Here's a list of postive feelings that can help you amplify how good you are really feeling.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the first part of this series, I shared a list of <a href="/how-are-you-really-feeling-words-for-your-emotions-part-13/" class="liinternal">feelings when you needs are not being satisfied</a>. These words provide plenty of specific aspects on which to apply EFT tapping. But what about when you are feeling good? We might have a few words we have to describe positive feelings like &#8220;good&#8221;, &#8220;all right&#8221;, &#8220;better than average&#8221; and you can get amplify the intensity of a positive feeling by getting more specific too.</p>
<p><img src="/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/happy-frog-rain-cropped-142x150.jpg" alt="Happy Rain" title="happy frog rain cropped" width="142" height="150" class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1700" />Remember that you can tap in positive feelings after you have significantly cleared and tapped on the negatives feelings that you have around events and issues. </p>
<p>If you&#8217;re feeling good for no apparent reason, don&#8217;t over analyse it, instead just do a few rounds of tapping to help your system really absorb and integrate that feeling. It&#8217;s like letting your body and mind know that you want more of this please!</p>
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			<strong>AFFECTIONATE</strong><br />
			compassionate<br />
			friendly<br />
			loving<br />
			open hearted<br />
			sympathetic<br />
			tender<br />
			warm</p>
<p><strong>ENGAGED</strong><br />
			  absorbed<br />
			  alert<br />
			  curious<br />
			  engrossed<br />
			  enchanted<br />
			  entranced<br />
			  fascinated<br />
			  interested<br />
			  intrigued<br />
			  involved<br />
			  spellbound<br />
			  stimulated   </p>
<p><strong>HOPEFUL</strong><br />
			  expectant<br />
			  encouraged<br />
			  optimistic</p>
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<p><strong>CONFIDENT</strong><br />
empowered<br />
open<br />
proud<br />
safe<br />
secure</p>
<p><strong>EXCITED</strong><br />
			    amazed<br />
			    animated<br />
			    ardent<br />
			    aroused<br />
			    astonished<br />
			    dazzled<br />
			    eager<br />
			    energetic<br />
			    enthusiastic<br />
			    giddy<br />
			    invigorated<br />
			    lively<br />
			    passionate<br />
			    surprised<br />
			    vibrant</p>
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<p> <strong>GRATEFUL</strong><br />
appreciative<br />
moved<br />
thankful<br />
touched </p>
<p><strong>INSPIRED</strong><br />
			  amazed<br />
			  awed<br />
			  wonder</p>
<p><strong>JOYFUL</strong><br />
			  amused<br />
			  delighted<br />
			  glad<br />
			  happy<br />
			  jubilant<br />
			  pleased<br />
			  tickled</p>
<p><strong>EXHILARATED</strong><br />
			  blissful<br />
			  ecstatic<br />
			  elated<br />
			  enthralled<br />
			  exuberant<br />
			  radiant<br />
			  rapturous<br />
			  thrilled</p>
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<p><strong>PEACEFUL</strong><br />
		      calm<br />
		      clear headed<br />
		      comfortable<br />
		      centered<br />
		      content<br />
		      equanimous<br />
		      fulfilled<br />
		      mellow<br />
		      quiet<br />
		      relaxed<br />
		      relieved<br />
		      satisfied<br />
		      serene<br />
		      still<br />
		      tranquil<br />
		      trusting</p>
<p><strong>REFRESHED</strong><br />
		        enlivened<br />
		        rejuvenated<br />
		        renewed<br />
		        rested<br />
		        restored<br />
		        revived</p>
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<td colspan="4">This list of feelings is (c) 2005 by Center for Nonviolent Communication,<br /> Website: <a href="http://www.cnvc.org" class="liexternal">www.cnvc.org</a>, Email: cnvc@cnvc.org, Phone: +1.505.244.4041 </td>
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<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/from-general-feelings-to-specific-issues-with-eft/" rel="bookmark" title="14 September, 2007" class="liinternal">From General Feelings to Specific Issues with EFT</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.tap4health.com/how-to-be-happy-therapy-distilled-to-its-most-basic/" rel="bookmark" title="13 May, 2010" class="liinternal">How to be happy: therapy distilled to its most basic.</a></li>
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		<title>How to be happy: therapy distilled to its most basic.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 22:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As many of you know I'm a fan of solutions-focused approaches to change and the flow chart below gives us the most basic process for being happy. I found it on Dr. Paolo Terni Solutions Surfer's blog. Basically, if you aren't happy and you want to be then change something. If you aren't happy and you don't want to be then keep doing what you're already doing. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As many of you know I&#8217;m a fan of solutions-focused approaches to change and the flow chart below gives us the most basic process for being happy. I found it on <a href="http://www.briefcoachingsolutions.com/in-one-poster/" class="liexternal">Dr. Paolo Terni Solutions Surfer&#8217;s blog</a>. Basically, if you aren&#8217;t happy and you want to be then change something. If you aren&#8217;t happy and you don&#8217;t want to be then keep doing what you&#8217;re already doing. </p>
<p>This may be annoyingly simple for those of us who have spent lots of money on self-help and therapy but you do have to appreciate the simplicity and that it puts the responsibility directly with us to keep making changes rather than expecting something external to us to change instead.<br />
<a href="http://www.briefcoachingsolutions.com/in-one-poster/" class="liimagelink"><img src="/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/media_httppaoloternic_iAmrb.jpg" alt="" title="Happiness Flow Chart" width="460" height="650" class="alignnone size-full wp-image-1662" /></a><strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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		<title>Have you been validated lately?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:54:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a wonderfully heart warming video to start the New Year. It tells the story of a man who goes way beyond just validating parking tickets and how his life unfolds. It has won numerous short film awards around the world. I particularly like the way that the star is always giving and giving [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a wonderfully heart warming video to start the New Year. It tells the story of a man who goes way beyond just validating parking tickets and how his life unfolds. It has won numerous short film awards around the world. I particularly like the way that the star is always giving and giving yet learns to receive as well. </p>
<p>Is there someone in your life that could use this type of validation? Maybe even yourself?</p>
<p>Please enjoy (running time 16 minutes):<br />
<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/Cbk980jV7Ao&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/Cbk980jV7Ao&#038;hl=en&#038;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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		<title>The EFT Discovery Statement and Positive Emotions</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 08:09:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>rodsherwin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The EFT Discovery statement gives us a great definition for negative emotions, they are a "disruption in the body's energy system" but how then do we describe the cause of positive emotions?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you have downloaded the <a href="http://www.emofree.com/a/?937/1" class="liexternal">free EFT Manual</a> you might recognise the EFT Discovery statement as:</p>
<blockquote><p>The cause of all negative emotions is a disruption in the body&#8217;s energy system &#8212; <em>Gary Craig</em></p></blockquote>
<p>When I was teaching my last <a href="http://www.tap4health.com/seminars-events/" class="liinternal">EFT Fundamentals</a> seminar and sharing this definition with the students, it got me wondering about how we might describe positive emotions with respect to our energy system. It is one thing to remove a &#8220;disruption in our energy system&#8221; to clear a negative emotion but what does our energy system have to do with positive emotions?</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dreamstime.com/res233811" class="liimagelink"><img src="http://www.tap4health.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/happiness-199x300.jpg" alt="©Alexandr Stepanov | Dreamstime.com" title="©Alexandr Stepanov | Dreamstime.com" width="199" height="300" class="alignright size-medium wp-image-804" /></a>I posted this question for discussion on the <a href="http://eftcommunity.emofree.com/forums/p/3357/18771.aspx#18771" class="liexternal">EFT Community Forums</a> and also on Facebook to see what others thought about this seeming limitation with the EFT Discovery statement to describe how positive emotions are experienced.</p>
<p>Some of the responses suggest that we could tap in positive emotions after we had cleared the negative which I certainly have found is true (see Dr. Patricia Carrington&#8217;s <a href="http://www.emofree.com/a/?937/Articles/choices.htm" title="EFT Choices Method by Dr. Pat Carrington" class="liexternal">Choices Method</a>). But this did not give me an explanation for what caused the positive emotions in the first place. </p>
<p>Others suggested that the only requirement to feel positive emotions was to clear all negative emotions, all disruptions in our energy system, and then we would naturally feel positive emotions. This highlighted an assumption of mine which is that there is something extra we need to do to feel good beyond just clearing all the negative stuff.</p>
<p>Getting closer to what I wanted, which is a working definition that I can use to explain both positive and negative emotions, was the idea that we feel negative emotions when our energies aren&#8217;t flowing well and feel positive emotions when our energies flow freely. So positive emotions could be explained as free flowing energies.</p>
<p>So can you suggest a replacement for the EFT Discovery Statement which explains both positive and negative emotions? Maybe EFT is the best tool for clearing negative emotions, events, and experiences, but others tools are more suited to create positive emotions. Share your thoughts in the comments.<strong>Related Posts:</strong>
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