Ever felt uncertain about which way to go in life?
Uncertain about what your life purpose is? Uncertain
about whether to stay or to leave a relationship?
Uncertain about whether to stay or leave a city?
Uncertain about what to have for lunch?
Usually, when we are swinging between
different decisions, we are stuck in our head and
trying to use logic to come to a decision.
Underneath our thinking is a churn of emotions
wanting to be acknowledged. I'll show you a way to use
EFT to clear the emotional issues for each decision
helping you get clear on your choice.
I will use only two choices in this
example but if you have more that two choices in a
situation then just continue doing this for all of
your choices. I will use 'choice A' and 'choice B' to
represent the two choices you are uncertain about.
Please substitute your own words for your choices e.g.
"Even though I'm uncertain about staying in this
town or moving to the coast,...
In the EFT setup acknowledge the conflict in
yourself between the choices you have. Keep the tapping
points handy as you work through
the process.
While tapping on the karate chop point say,
"Even though I'm uncertain about whether to choose A
or B, I accept this conflict within myself.
Even though I think A and B are both good, I
accept myself. Even though there are downsides to
both A and B, I accept myself.
Even though I'm mentally worn out trying to make up
my mind about these issues, I release the need the
decide right now and ask my subconscious mind and
higher self to clearly communicate the best choice
for me."
Now pick one of the decisions and start tapping
through the rest of the points.
At each point you will tap on one perceived
positive thing about choice A and on the next point
you will tap on one perceived downside of choice A.
Continue tapping through the points until you run
out of considerations about choice A.
Head: "Choice A is good because..." (be sure to
complete the sentence for your choice at each
point)
Eyebrows: "Choice A is not good because..."
Side of Eyes: "I like choice A because..."
Under Eyes: "I don't like choice A because..."
Under Nose: "I want to do choice A because..."
Chin Point: "I don't want to do choice A
because..."
Collarbones: "Choice A is better for me because..."
Under Arms: "I don't like .... about choice A"
Wrists: "Even though Choice A has good and bad
sides, I accept the uncertainty in myself."
Now repeat the same series of tapping only this
time substitute choice B into the phrases as you say
them. If you have more than two choices then
continue tapping through each of the alternatives
that you are considering.
After these rounds of tapping, give yourself a
break from thinking about the problem for at least 1
hour and preferably a night's sleep. Then reconsider
the situation and you will find you have a new
perspective and much more certainty about the choice
to make - and the choice you ultimately make may be
completely different from the alternatives you
tapped on. Look forward to being pleasantly
surprised!