Helping Children with School Trauma
It seems part of clearing our emotional issues is resolving the traumatic experiences we had while at school. I appeal to all parents out there to please, please, please learn the basics of EFT and tap on, tap with and tap for your children as often as possible.
If you invest the time now to resolve their hurts, fears and rejections these disturbance in their energy systems won’t be buried deep and require several session in my practice in 20 years time to resolve.
As an adult, we sometimes underestimate the impact that a school incidence can have on our children. Our brain is always searching for meaning and will create all sorts of beliefs from the most trivial of looks or behaviour from others. A child does not yet have our adult ability to put things in perspective, so being snubbed in the playground can install a belief that something is wrong with me and I’m never going to be loved and everyone else is better than me.
So again I would ask parents now to work with your child to heal the wounds earlier rather than later. A simple way to do this is, as often as you can, ask your child about their day and as they tell you about it tap on yourself and have them tap on themselves.
Doing the exercise above, forget about the using the formal EFT “Even though I have this …., I completely love and accept myself”. Remember that the purpose of this affirmation is to keep us focused on the problem. When your child is telling you about their day they are already tuned into what is going on so just tap through the points as they talk.
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- School Made Much Easier – Online Resource Library
- What’s wrong with you?
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- Using EFT with a Doctor’s Diagnosis
- Tips on Finding the Root Cause of an Emotion
