There have been many example articles about how tapping ‘for’ someone can have amazing effects. Here’s my contribution. I used to be annoyed by screaming kids in public places but now I do my bit to ease the situation.
The first time I did this was in a food court. You know the situation – the kid is screaming and running uncontrollably, the mother is looking desperate, and everyone else is grumbling or looking away. I focused on the child and, without saying anything out loud, I placed my intention on the tapping spots and thought something like “Even though I’m tired and hungry, I choose to be relaxed and calm” but I don’t think the words really matter. In less than a minute the child returned to her mother and sat down with the family. I’m sure I felt a mutual sigh of relief from all within hearing distance.
Then just recently, I was on a flight with a very new baby on board who starting screaming during takeoff. I focused on the child, put my intention on the tapping points and mentally repeated “Even though my ears hurt, the plane is noisy and I’m scared, I choose to feel relaxed and calm”. Before I even got through one round the baby fell silent. During landing the baby started to cry again and I repeated the procedure with the same effect.
I call this being a Silent Angel. I love to be able to contribute to others in this way. I wonder how many of us can perform random acts of kindness like this each day.
Originally published in Gary Craigs EFT Insights Newsletter.
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This is a lovely post. I have used EFT in similar situations, I like the idea of being a silent angel.
My own son has some big issues regardng school work. I am currently using eft to help him. I find this such a powerful technique and I’m constantly amazed at the results I get.
Hi,
Do you think I can try this for my husband who had childhood trauma, badly affected by it?
Hi Helen, one thing you can’t do is force someone else to change with surrogate work. However, your tapping for what you guess that he is feeling and going through will help him heal and, maybe, he heal’s enough to then seek help from an experienced EFT Practitioner which I believe would be the best way to work with the trauma. Any tapping helps, but remember, take care of your own feelings, frustrations, and sadness first, and then reach out to your husband.
Thanks for the quick reply,let me see if I can help him in anyway.
hi rod, i have heard from my friend about tapping and i have been reading lot and hearing the videos/yt .plz advice me for becoming pregant since am childless and am 42. thanks
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Hi Govindanandini, the issues around becoming preganant are unique and individual to each person. I know there are lots of excellent EFT Practitioners in the UK so I would suggest contact some of them and finding someone you are comfortable working with to identify and heal the issues that may be preventing you from falling pregnant.